Second wedding planning tips

The second marriage was something unique and rare in the past, but today has become common. That’s the reason for why, in some of my articles I write “unique event in your lifetime” (that if you’re a lucky one). But, in this article I don’t want to write about divorce causes or about mistakes we do that lead to a broken marriage. On the contrary, this article encourage women to believe once again in true love and get married the second time in their life. As I said in the first lines, nowadays, the second marriages become very common, for this reason, couples do not have to even worry about acceptance of others. The following lines contain some important tips or answers to main questions appeared in second wedding planning.

-To tell about your wedding to your former husband?
The hardest part on the second wedding planning is to decide what to do with your former husband. If you have children, it is polite to inform your former husband about the engagement and upcoming wedding. This can be done with a simple letter or email, in case you hardly talk to each other. If you don’t have children with your former husband, you have no obligation to inform. Former husband and his family are rarely invited to the second marriage.

-Children from first marriage
Invite your children to the wedding and give them important roles as flower girl or ring bearer.
-Big party for the second marriage?

Generally, the second marriage tends to be smaller and more intimate than the first. However, it depends on each one. If at first you do all the wedding traditions that we are asking parents, then to the second can do what you want. When planning the second wedding, you must realize that this time you’ll pay, not your parents if they paid on your first wedding.
Instead of doing one big party, better plan a second small marriage in cocktail style. If you make your outdoor wedding, enter the fun elements and turned it into a picnic-style party.
-What to wear to the second wedding?

The theme and the degree of formality of the wedding will determine the nuptial dress. For the second marriage, you truly can choose what kind of dress you want, be it an elegant cocktail dress or a nice suit. You can use this event to purchase the sophisticated designer dress that you’ve always wanted, but you had no reason to buy.
On the second marriage, the parents of groom tend to be not so involved as in the first weddings and to children can be given roles in the wedding process.

Written by WeddingPlanner, date Aug 05, 2010 in Useful Info
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