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Does and don’ts in traditional wedding planning

I noticed that over the years the value of marriage as an institution it had been lost. Couples stay together very long periods, sometimes a lifetime, have children or live together without being married, the general reply is “not an act binds us, but love between us.” There are moments when, no matter how non-traditional you are or how little you believe in marriage, you see the advantages of it. So, although you’re not big fan of weddings, although not necessarily you want to wear a huge white wedding gown, the wedding is an important step in the life of every couple.




The idea is to make a personalized wedding, modern, which doesn’t need to include the classical patterns of such an event. In this article, we’d like to show you some does and don’ts in traditional wedding planning, starting from a clear comparison between modern and traditional weddings. So here is our debate. Enjoy it and tell us what are your opinions in what regards marriage as institution. The advantages of a modern wedding. If the age of the both lovers is a bit advanced, the couple is more mature and they rather tend to a casual modern wedding instead of a traditional one.  Modern weddings are held in small locals, where rather you go out for a beer than for a wedding. There are few guests and lavish decorations have no place among the priorities. Because modern weddings are generally attended by few guests, being held in a small circle, family and close friends, they won’t spend lots of money for making the effort of being present at your wedding. In conclusion, both couple but also the guests won’t suffer any collapse and the wedding atmosphere will be more relaxed.

Who generally appeals to modern weddings? Some grooms will choose a smaller and less traditional wedding if they are at the second marriage and have gone once through all the emotions, nerves and grandeur of a wedding with 200 guests and are not willing to deal with it once again. Being just few guests, they will socialize more easily and organizing the event and the event itself will be much less stressful for the bride and groom. All the details which are involved in a traditional wedding, from choosing the location and the wedding date and ending with the favors given to all those present, can be very stressful and also, they can create a nervous atmosphere. Small weddings don’t generate such tensions.

Traditional weddings. Generally, couples opt for traditional wedding not necessarily for the civil wedding moment, in the sense that focus is not on the marriage certificate itself, but on the appearance of religious wedding.  There are lots of people for who wedding represents couple’s union before God. Unlike couples who choose to live together without being married, there are people who want once with getting older, to have someone close to them who can call husband or wife.  As people grow older, the fear of dying alone is increasing and this fear is more powerful than all the arguments they used in their youth to fight against the idea of marriage. Besides spiritual benefits, the practical benefits are even more observable: talking about material reasons, living in two is much calmer. To get a home loan for example, married couples are significantly advantaged over single people, because revenues are taken in common and marriage certificate itself becomes a kind of guarantee.

In addition, many medical researches have shown that married people live longer than those single, they have a calm life, with overwork and stress level much lower than celibates. Of course, we are talking about happy marriages.Probably you were expecting to read in our article all the ordinary does and don’ts in planning a traditional wedding, but we desired to show you all the wonderful advantages of an intercommunity before God.